Top 12 Best Ways to Get Motivated for Gym Workout

Overcoming a workout slump

There are days that feel like the last thing you want to do is workout. Perhaps the thought of exercising is overwhelming. Maybe it has been so long since the last time you exercised that hitting the gym triggers anxiety. Sometimes there is more to stepping out of those doors and into a crowded gym. I made a small list of ways I get motivated; from personal experience. It has helped me make it to the gym and feeling amazing afterwards.

  1. Drink Coffee and Pre-workouts
    Whether you are a coffee, energy, or pre-workout drinker. These little boosters give you a moment of catalysts to make it out the door. Of course, if these type of drinks or chemicals harm you, it is best to stay away. Also, caffeine doesn’t last for long, and it won’t give you magical powers, but it may get you out of your slump.
  2. Imagine and Feel Long Term Goals
    The reason you are exercising is important. I mean the true motivations. Write down three real motivations and pull them out for a time when you are feeling slumped. Perhaps you want to look good. Maybe you want to feel skinnier so everyone can you can overcome. Also, you may want to bulk up to stop to scare the bullies in your life. Whatever the reasons are, write them down, just three. Make them authentic.
  3. Think of Possible Negative Feelings
    Most motivation comes from emotions. Eating a cake may make us feel really good. However, if we are trying to lose weight and we eat it, we feel regret and guilt. Same for exercise, if we miss a session, we can feel terrible. “I should’ve gone.”
  4. Think of Positive Feelings
    Exercise is not all negative! Once you understand all the positive attributes of exercise, you will want to experience it over and over again. There is nothing like the feeling of satisfaction and euphoria after a workout. It was difficult at first but it was worth it. Imagine yourself feeling great after the gym. Think of the accomplishment. Think of the gains…or the losses. Would you be happy looking at your muscles in the mirror? Even the short term goals count! You will become addicted!
  5. Easy warm up
    Every exercise session doesn’t have to be bootcamp. You don’t have to lift the most weight or do the impossible everytime you go to the gym, ESPECIALLY if you are in a slump. Take it easy, start with a walk. Maybe some jumping jacks. Perhaps some stretches. Just start off small. You never know, maybe it will be your best work out day. Sometimes, just making it into the gym is a workout. Guess what? Than counts too!
  6. Dive In
    There are times when it is good to just go. This is one of the harder things to do, but it can be done. You can do it! Just get it started. Think of the parents that have to get up each morning at the crack of dawn to work for their children. It doesn’t have to be so glum, but it helps. You also don’t have to work out first thing in the morning! Some are morning people. Some are noon or evening people (like myself).
  7. Step by Step
    Slow and steady wins the race. Remember, you can’t do it all in one day. Realistically, you have to make it a lifestyle. I notice around summer or new years that people fill the gym or are jogging in the streets. It is a valiant effort, but be aware it takes a lifestyle of commitment to reach your goals. You can’t give up in a week. You can’t change in one week either. It takes time. Also, sometimes it’s more than exercise. It can be diet and other lifestyle changes. Just, step by step. Enjoy each step.
  8. Excuse lower performance
    So yesterday you ran 3 miles today you can’t run 100 feet. It’s ok. Did you try? That is all that matters. Just making it in counts. Consistency is important. If you are feeling down, putting yourself in the place where you exercise will motivate you. If you don’t perform your best, at least you made it. Remember, this is not laziness, this is your body adjusting. We all have our days, so if today is yours, forgive yourself, tomorrow is another day.
  9. Announce Journey on Social media
    “What a great work out!” or “Made it to the gym today!” simple social announcements, help your commitment. Sometimes it helps to know people are cheering you on. I remember when I was in a slump I posted my “check in” to the gym for about a year. Two or three people liked my status, but it kept me going. Simple things like this help motivation. I am motivated not let those two or three people down.
  10. Music
    Nothing pumps you up better than some pre-workout jams. Whatever type of music you like, just push play. Anything that gets you out of your own logic will help. By the time you make it to the gym you will be totally focused on killing it.
  11. Take a break!
    If you are already on a workout streak and suddenly come to a sudden halt in motivation, maybe its time to chill. Take a week off and then start again. Your body talks to you, it tells you when it is overworked so listen to it!
  12. Have fun!
    Most of all have fun. Exercise is supposed to be an enjoyable experience. It is supposed to make us feel better, like watering a plant, or playing with your pet. Those are all positive things that help our bodies grow and not hurt so much. Remember 21 days builds a habit, 66 days it becomes a lifestyle.

The “I need to lose weight!” mentality.

Today I had a thought as I worked out. Let me elaborate. I started gaining weight when I was 13 years old. My parents had a nick-name for me, “Chancho” which means “Hog” or “Pig” in spanish. I guess I looked fat. As I got older, I noticed my weight increasing. In my 30’s I reached a weight of 220. During my early 40’s I had tough time adjusting to my job and entered a slump. I became motivated and lost over 30 pounds purely by dieting. I reached a goal of 179 pounds! People began telling me I was too skinny!. I loosened my diet restrictions. My weight climbed up..190-200-205! Which brings me to today. I am 47 and weigh 205 pounds.

I currently lift weights and practice Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. I find this has much to do with my weight gain. Muscle gains increase weight. This terrifies me as I stare at the scale and see the numbers creep up. Also, my clothes, that once felt loose, are now starting to feel tight! But I don’t look fat. I look muscular. Thus brings me to the crux of my little post here. I had (have) to switch my mindset from “I need to lose weight!” to “I’m gaining lean muscle.” You see, I feel good! and I don’t look so terrible for a 47 year old. So why the conflict?

The mindset of losing weight comes from negative connotations about being overweight. For example, these are the things I associate personally to being overweight.

1. Being stagnant, lazy, unproductive or inactive
2. Lack of self control; overeating
3. Lack of self care; eating or drinking without considering health.
4. Illness from lack of self care.
5. Unhygienic
6. Unable to keep up with those who are healthy. Fatigued. Weakness.

The culmination of the above leads to a feeling of lack of self respect and unattractiveness. It’s ever so subtle. Granted, if one is overweight because of the above, it would be in their best interest to tweak and overcome those habits.

But what if you take care of yourself? Eat right, are productive, exercise, etc….and are gaining weight due to muscle gain. The mantra repeats itself like an old voice “I need to lose weight!” “I’m gaining weight!” “I’m fat!” “If I feel fat, I must be fat. I must be out of shape!” These are twisted beliefs. Habitual mantras of an old lifestyle. It’s like the beautiful supermodel who thinks she is ugly ….if that makes sense. Gaining weight because of muscle isn’t bad, it’s great! I’m really trying to get that ingrained in me. Stop the “lose weight” mission and be satisfied in my “I’m gaining muscle!” self. So there you have it, one does not always need to “lose weight” to be healthy.

How to Buy Tickets to “The Magic of Lights” at PNC Art’s Center (and helpful tips)

The infamous light tunnel.

If you’re in the central NJ area and want to see a cool light show (at a price), then an easy organized one to visit is The Magic Light Show at the PNC Art’s Center.

First things first, swing over to their website TheMagicofLights.com. There you can buy tickets and find out about offers and other little nick nacks to purchase as addons. Above everything, the most important piece of information is to prepare for a long wait on the weekends. This was a deal breaker this weekend for my family and I. Instead we went today; a Monday.

WARNING THERE ARE NO BATHROOMS!☠️ So be prepared (unlike me)

Update! There was a porta-potty at the end of the line, right before the “official” entrance to the show. So if you can stand waiting 1-2 hours you will be fine.

A beautiful porta-potty oasis

We got there at 5pm and it was already crowded. The line moved slow. In my case painfully slow, being I had to use the bathroom 😱. The total line wait was 1 hour on a Monday.

Part of the actual wait line😱

We picked up a treat box for our daughters. Each was $15. It contained 4 sugar cookies, a candy cane and like 5 Hershey’s kisses. Was it worth it? Meh..one would have been enough. It was definitely overpriced.

There’s also a refreshment stand near the entrance. However, after my bladder nearly exploding, the last thing I wanted was any fluids in my body.

The total drive through the show time was approximately an hour. It had some fun displays like the “12 Days of Christmas” which was our favorite. Let’s not forget the “light tunnel” for that ooh-ahh experience.

In all, was it worth it? Yes! I had fun with the fam. Will I do it next year? Probably not, but we all enjoyed it.

Tips When Visiting The Christmas Tree at Rockefeller Center.

View from the designated Rockefeller Center Designated area.

So yesterday we went to see the Christmas Tree at Rockefeller center. It was crowded. There were areas were social distancing was difficult.

Here are some tips to make life a little easier.

First things first. Is it free?!! YES!
Here we go:
Enter by 6th ave and West 50th St by Radio City Music Hall (there will be a sign and a line for the tree on your right)
At the end of the line there will be a QR barcode you need to scan with your phone. When you scan it with the camera on your phone, it will open a webpage ; click on it. (On my iPhone 11 Pro it opened up safari. I had to CLICK IT) It will direct you to a webpage where you will fill out your information. This will include your phone number so they can text you. Then they will give you a number and a wait time, mine was NW-24 (remember it) with a ten minute wait.
Just move to the side until they text you to show your info to the directing staff (they are wearing fluorescent yellow jackets).
After you give them your number they will lead you to these big social distancing circles on the ground. Follow them.
Voila! you should be viewing the Rockefeller Christmas Tree now!!
Other things to know.
There is a photographer who will take a souvenir photo and print it right away. He charged us $30 for a big one. There is a smaller $20 one. He takes credit cards.
Next, THE BATHROOM! There is the entrance to Rockefeller Center to your left as you exit the tree viewing area. Go in there if you need to use the bathroom and ask the guard to tell you where it is. He will guide you downstairs, straight through the doors. Keep walking and you will see them on your right (it’s deep in there).
Parking. If you’re driving into the city, just find something a few blocks away from the epicenter. Look at the signs and you should be ok.
Other things to do in the area.
We visited the American Girl’s Store which was fun for my daughters.
Next time we go we may visit the Ice Rink, The Lego Store and Top of the Rock.
Hope this helped you!!